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For those of you ( and most won't have ) who have gotten this far, my belief is there is something of value for you personally in these quotes. I am often compelled to follow through with 'inspirational' tappings on my shoulder.

I recently read a post on the TKR boards that immediately struck me and instantly, an entire 'plan' rooted and developed- an 'inspired moment' like an 'ah ha' revelation and it all fell into place very quickly. It's almost as if I don't have a choice but to do this. It comes through me, but not necessarily of me. Some of the most important communications I've accomplished in my life have been those things led by inspiration, or what is seemingly a 'whim' or an out of the blue 'needing' to do this...which it never is in the end as it always seems to matter. I've yet to do something like this that I haven't been told "thanks..that's just what I needed".

This is for those of you who will immediately identify that 'these words are meant for me'. This can be read in a continuous fashion, such as a story and/or each quote individually. You'll be the best judge of how this should be read and absorbed. You will also know if this doesn't apply to you because you will stop reading at some point ~ sooner rather than later ~ in fact, you may have stopped before you even got this far.

This is from me to and for you.

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11-10-05

Much to my surprise, since 10-31-05, I've received several communications from those who have come across this site. There is only 1 link to it available in an obscure place that not many will even notice, so I'm pleased to see that a few 'surfers' have found this.

Several comments & requests have been made to which I will respond by continuing to post brief articles/information addressing the requests/concerns as I have the time to do so. I have several articles already started and more being considered.

To clarify and qualify my credentials, other than life experience, I have none ! Not a one. LOL. I am not a professional counselor in any capacity. I am simply a human being living the human condition and experience ~ going through the tough spots just like anyone else.

In regards to what is 'TKR' ~ it is a group I belonged to having to do with an interest of mine. It has no bearing on the scope of any information written about here. It was an observation of mine, within the TKR group, that prompted this being done at all....nothing more, nothing less.

I thank you for your comments and interest. I too will learn as this project progresses. I'm pleased that you have found what is here to be thought provoking for you and a spring board towards solutions.

Due to the comments I've received, what I thought was to be 'just this site' will now be something more. I thought my job was finished however, it seems that I'm in for a ride that I didn't know I asked for ! I know better than to ignore what is happening here. I've tried not giving in to 'these callings' before and it only hounds me until it's completed in the shape and form that releases the 'inspiration'

I don't know why I have this happen to me as frequently as it does. For many, many years, I would be living my life and then have a sudden need to get paper and pen, with no idea of what was going to be written. Effortlessly, words would flow from the pen onto the paper and in the end, I had something quite wondrous and wonderful. This is commonly known as 'Automatic Writing' in the PSI field. Maybe my subconscious is really the author of these things and I'm attributing it to other sources. Maybe all the thoughts I've put written words to over the years are actually beliefs of mine that I'm simply not aware of until they take form in language that is readable. I will admit, that I've yet to write any of these writings that I haven't agreed with upon their completion.

Check back from time to time to see what's new and keep your thoughts and comments coming!

PDPJ

11-20-05 ~ I posted a copy of my 'still most favorite' on the page called 'An Inspired Piece ~'
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11-17-05

I've added a few things today and checked to see how many more bytes I had left as this site has a maximum allowed as a free site. I now know that this project will be completed in 2MG more ...unless I link it to another free site..'Letting Go Part II the sequel' lol! . . . . . NOT !!
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12-05-05
 
     I just read my comment above about their NOT being a part 2 to this project and laughed ~~  I have so much MORE to add and am now figuring out how to link another site to this one. So much for declarations of "NO WAY' !
 
     I am using articles as I find them, meaning, I am not altering them in anyway.  Due to the nature of the topics involved here, I often find much worthwhile reading on the more inspirational sites which often include references to GOD.
 
     In these days of being politically 'correct' (sigh), for those of you who may be offended by GOD thoughts, please just overlook the word and focus on the value of what is being brought to your attention. If you must, replace the word with that of your choice, be it, higher power, guides, higher self ~ whatever works for you.
 
     When I started this, there were only 4-5 buttons on the left hand side and now there are many more. You may find that reading at this point, that some articles could be better placed than they are....please just excuse that. When I'm finished building all of this, I pick a rainy day and go back and do all the fine tuning ~ typos (mine) included. However,I won't alter the orginal articles, Typos, gramatical errors and mispelled words will remain as I found them.
 
     There are not individual pages within topics, so I've created an Index of sorts at the beginning of each topic listing the contents by title. This should make it easier for you to find what is most pertient to you. The titles are in the same order as the articles are posted.
 
     I had no idea this would have grown to the size that it is. In fact, I had no idea I would even be doing this .... period. But here I am, and here IT is and it will be even larger in weeks to come. Eventually, it will be finished and I have no idea when that will be.
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