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Trust ~
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How & When & Why ~
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Things to try ~ Things to learn ~ Ways of Looking at Things ~
Metaphysical Points of View ~
Internet relationships ~
Friends & Friendship ~ Relationships ~
When It's Finally Over ~..OR..~ When it's Over, Finally !
Considerations & Perspectives that will stretch your mind ~
An Inspired Piece ~
TESTS - QUIZES TO TAKE ~
LINKS ~

Updated Information ~

** For the most recent updates and comments,click here~

12-8-05
 
Part 2 of this project is just about ready to publish !!
 
I'm currently making all the link connections joining the 2 parts together.  Speaking of relationships -'We' have yet ANOTHER snow storm pending for tomorrow, so I may just be able to stick with this and get it finished. For sure, I won't be shoveling the damned stuff...  that's what I got married for   LOL.
 
Part 1, where you are now, is full. No more new material will be added to the topics.  I'll continue to post all updates  on Part 2 with the most recent being the first one you read. Just scroll down to see previous updates/comments right here in Part 1 and in Part 2.
 
For the most recent updates and comments, click here to go there:  http://puh.jommies22.tripod.com/id24.html
 
***Today, I added a personal comment to the "INTERNET RELATIONSHIP' topic. This is the only 'new' material posted.
 
Should any links not work (even though I'm checking them all before I publish part 2, please email me with the problem(s). The CONTACT ME button on the left provides the information you'll need.
 

* NOTE: Since updating this post, Tripod has deleted Part 2 not once BUT TWICE  in less than 12 hours!  No warning from them - just poof and it was gone in the midst of my working on it ! The first time was their "ooops' and it was reinstalled by them. I am now waiting for their second 'excuse' - meanwhile, the links ' FOR MORE' included within the topics index won't be working until this is resolved.
At this time, you will be shown this message: The page you are attempting to access has been removed because it violated Tripod's Terms of Service.
 
So far, Tripod has deleted more than 15 hours work of mine. This site, part 1, hasn't been involved and I hope it remains that way. I have simply used all the available bytes here and can't progress any further until they get their act together.
 

** 12-10-05  1:15 AM
Just a few minutes ago, Part 2 has been restored ...again. They offered no explanation this time. I kept sending 'I contest' emails and at least got this far.... again .  I will wait a few days before putting more time into this.  Time will tell if they have finished making mistakes or not.
 
*** 12-10-05

I've added a poll for you to take...look for the Poll Button on the left hand side.
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11-20-05

This 'simple project' is growing. I already have far more content here than I expected to have.

Because I've been adding so much more and I can't create separate pages for new additions/changes, I'm starting a 'What's new' type log HERE.

I've been dating information as I post it, but have already been going back to previous posts and have added new information within that topic or have fine tuned it as insights and awareness come to me, so you many want to review what you've already read as there may be new information within it. This would apply to all postings from 10-31-05 to 11-19-20 and prior to today,won't be listed here. I will from today forward, mention any changes in those postings.

Starting today, 11-20-05, I will make note of any/all changes/additions here in hopes of making your time spent here easier and more productive for you.

This web site is only ever going to be known of by a few people. I've not promoted it via browser submissions etc. There is only one link in existence that will allow a select group of people to access this site. Anyone else who 'happens to find this' are web surfers and surprisingly, there have been a handful.

It's pleasing to see that there are already a few 'regular' visitors. Thank you for your continued interest and comments. I will continue trying to find information addressing your comments/suggestions.

I, along with you, am learning. I've had my share of past experiences that have been difficult and am finding in doing this work, that I'm not up to date on some 'tossing out' of old perceptions that worked then, but need improving on for situations now.

I'm very conscious about keeping myself balanced by weeding out that which no longer serves me, but it is ( I am) a constant work in progress and it's through what I expose myself to that I become aware of improvements I can make within myself.

Starting today, in dated order, significant additions/changes that I've made.

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11-20-05

* Started an 'UPDATE' page.

* Added an article to the 'HEALING' section.

* Fixed the Quintana & Speer MUSIC link.

* TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS - PERSONALITY DISORDERS ~ article #6 added

* A new page called "AN INSPIRED PIECE' I wrote in 1980 ~"

* Article called 'The Cyber Narcissist' on the INTERNET page.

* A new page called 'METAPHYSICAL POINTS OF VIEW ~

* "Falling in Love is a Choice" article added to 'LETTING GO IS A DECISION ~ section'

* 2 articles in the TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS - PERSONALITY DISORDERS ~~ section. They are -'Dysfunctional Relationship Dynamics - Healthy Relationship Patterns' - & 'I hate you, Please don't leave me'.
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11-21-05

* "Serenity - Accepting the things we cannot change" added to LETTING GO IS DECISION ~

* 2 articles added to 'EXPECTATIONS, ACCOUNTABILITY, BOUNDARIES AND ANGER ~ section ~

* 3 articles added to 'HOW & WHEN & WHY ~' section

* 7 articles added to 'INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS ~

* 6 articles added to 'HEALING - MOVING ON ~

* An article added to 'WHEN IT'S FINALLY OVER ~..OR..~ WHEN IT'S OVER, FINALLY !'

* An article added to 'THINGS TO LEARN ~ WAYS OF LOOKING AT THINGS ~ THINGS TO TRY ~ THINGS TO LEARN'

* Added 2 Meatloaf pieces on THE MUSIC list.

(If you're up for a few grins and chuckles, listen to Paradise by the dashboard light.)

*I've also interjected some comments in a few of the older postings.

I won't be posting anything new until after the Thanksgiving Holiday. I hope you have many things to be thankful for this Thursday ~ even if things *seem* bleak, dig deep, you'll find something :)

I'm starting to run out of free space...had 20MG now have 761k left.
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11-25-05

* Added a new topic called 'FRIENDS & FRIENDSHIPS'

Several articles have been posted. More are coming.

* Article added to 'Things to try ~ Things to learn ~ Ways of Looking at Things ~'

* Article added to "INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS ~ '
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11-26-05

* New links added to the 'LINKS~' page

* Many articles added to these topics:

TRUST ~

EXPECTATIONS-BOUNDARIES-ACCOUNTABILITY & ANGER~

HOW & WHEN & WHY ~

HEALING - MOVING ON ~

THINGS TO TRY ~ THINGS TO LEARN~WAYS OF LOOKING AT THINGS ~

INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS ~

FRIENDS & FRIENDSHIP ~
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11-27-05

*Articles added to:

TRUST ~

HOW ~ WHEN ~ WHY ~

LETTING GO IS A DECISION ~
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11-28-05

* Download section with links for 4 publications in PDF format on the LINKS page.

* Article added to 'LETTING GO IS A DECISION'

* Add 'TEST-QUIZES' page

* Added to 'HOW-WHEN-WHY ~'

* Added to 'FRIENDS & FRIENDSHIP ~ RELATIONSHIPS ~'

* Added to 'EXPECTATIONS,ACCOUNTABILITY,BOUNDARIES and ANGER' ~
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12-05-05

I added a comment to the 'INTRODUCTION'

I'm in the process of adding an Index of sorts within each topic. This will allow you a preview of what may interest you. The article titles are in the same order as the articles. Just scroll down to find the one you want.

I have lots more content to add ! LOTS MORE !!

I am so pleased to see the amount of activity here! ...not to mention, SURPRISED :) Mostly within the US, but several from other countries at this point. Exciting !

As the holidays approach, I'm already pressed for time, as we all are. I have a wonderful trip coming up, but need to be ready (shopping/mailing) no later than the 15th. I will add to what's here when and as I can.

I've spent the past few days 'researching' and just have so much for you ~ just keep checking back. I'll try and add a few everyday. PDPJ
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12-7-05
 
I did it!! 
 
Part 2 is in the process of being built :)
 
I've added a new topic called " A Potpourri of  Considerations" and look forward to adding some thought provoking material for your consideration.
 
In response to the question of 'it being possible' to have an interactive message board ~ I wish ! ... but it's not possible within this format. I'd love to be able to interact with everyone openly instead of using emails and the guest book :(
 
Maybe Santa will solve the problem?
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